Thursday, January 26, 2012

Have A Happy Weekend



Weekends are ever awaited days in everyone’s life, at least in my life. Getting up late in the morning, enjoying the sunshine, eating lots of calories, talking to mom on phone, having chit chat with friends. Life seems so standstill, so serene and I love the tranquility and peace in my life. Okay lets not bore you with this. And all I want to do is to write, be it crap, but I want to write. Its been long that I’ve written anything on my blog.

The life after my sister’s marriage has been different, now I feel more responsible towards my family. I think a lot, hell lot. How to make things work for myself? After the debacle in my early life, I felt life is falling apart, but no, life still holds something for me. How can I forget that only when the night occurs we understand the importance of day! If there is no sign of sadness, I would never know what happiness means for you and what should I do to attain to reach my goal? Though I plan out almost every single detail of my life but its life who decides what will happen next, coz I m not the architect of my life. There is someone above me who has pre-decided my fate.

Today I made a promise to myself that whatever happens, good or bad, I’ll never lose faith in Almighty and my parents. Hopefully in coming time I would be on the position I want to and that too without losing my temper and my ideals (have seen people doing it in due course of time). I know its not concerning your life and doesn’t even bother you that you should read it and even think for a while about the realism in my words. But the purpose of writing this was sharing my thoughts, filling my bog and trying to tell everyone that whatever life might be for you, never lose faith, there is always a way. Even if you have done something wrong, don’t be afraid to accept the consequences because you never know what going to happen next. What if its for your own good? You have to take the risk and plunge for the dream you wished true all the time.

Love people around you, respect them and you will never face any hardships in your life. People often ask me why are you so good to people who don’t even give a damn. I just have one answer, its not on my hands to change their attitude towards me or life but I’ve control over my thoughts so why to spoil them because of others? And if there is a chance that they can be changed, I would love to take it. If we don’t give chance to people how we will come to know the depth they can face. So do good to people and surely that good would come back to you. I know I’ve done a lot of preaching in this blog but what to do. I remember how Munna Bhai went on Gandhi’s way to cure his sick friend.  I hope you didn’t mind my words. I deeply feel world needs more love than competition. Let’s help each other and grow with people around us.

Cheers!!!
Zivpreet

18 comments:

  1. I totally agree with you. But you know sometimes we just cant face the consequences. :)

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  2. May be cos its unexpected but can you really escape? By facing them may be we have a chance to fool them....what say??

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    1. You know mere acceptance is not difficult. Difficulty is when we have to live with it everyday.

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    2. but thats life...isn't it? And everyone faces this at least once in their life.... but I would wish people have patience to deal with it :)

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  3. Perfect thoughts... brilliant way to lead if u can keep it that way..
    One more thing I would like to add which i learned today..
    Bad times are like Medicines and Good times are like Disease...
    Coz its the good times that we forget god to thank bout them and become selfish..
    So it is in these times that we should maintain our sanity and give our thanks to the Almighty bout everything that we have..

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  4. ur words r so true n honest...u hv the makings of a gud writer...keep up the good work. You can find my blog www.soniakundrasingh.blogspot.com

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  5. Ziv, may I disagree with you for a second of time? I believe we are all the architects of our lives.We plan, we desire, we want, love and hate by design.We chose our friends, we chose or actions. Years ago I was leading a life that I felt I had no control over. I won't go into it here. You sound as if you want more, want much when all life needs from us is honesty and loyalty. Being asked why you are being good to people is a question asked by people who are unsure of their own worth. I am good to everyone, and in return..I have been kicked aside, hated and even loved. But it was my heart that gave, not a desire to gain. We are accountable for our actions, yes, but often we act as we do out of anger, greed or as a showing of power. No matter how stupid the act is. Respect your parents, but know they too have made mistakes, and will again. It's life. Do good, care, love and your life will follow your lead. You are a very brilliant woman. You will become whatever you so desire. I feel lucky to call you friend. I feel very many feel the same was as I do. Thank you for this writing you gave us. You are a good person, it shows.

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  6. Thanks and yes you are right...we are the architects. And we are what we do and believe in. I will try my best to be a brillant woman in future. :)

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  7. Hmm! I have been following your blog for quite sometime now. Though, your frequency is pretty low but I must say that your skills have improved a lot. I believe, the earlier blogs were written out of passion and hunger for writing. Even this very blog has these two qualities but it has an additional one as well, it has your flair for writing!

    I am neither a writer nor a blogger. I am not even a critic. I am just an ardent reader. I hope my views will be appreciated.

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    1. Happy to hear your views. Would love to know your name as well. And I am happy to add some flair in my writing. Thanks for writing and motivating :)

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    2. Well, you can call me Anonymous! I think, I would like to be a secret admirer. It's a crazy idea but has a lot of fun!!

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    3. Haha. Okay, so if anyday you wish to reveal your identity, email me on zivpreet@gmail.com

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  8. awesum zivi.....eloquent style of writing:)
    zuheb

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  9. A Good & Honest one.!!!

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